Monday, 8 May 2017

The Macron Love Story - Would you marry someone 30 years older than you?

When I first heard the love story behind Emmanuel Macron, the newly elected president of France and his beau Brigitte, I was a little surprised. I though, 'hmm another weirdo.' When I later discovered that Brigitte was his secondary school teacher, I had just had to dig deeper. If you didn't know, Macron is 39 and his wife of 12 years is 68. They met when he was 16 and she was 45. But, she has said that 'nothing' happened until he was 18.

Yet French women love this setup. Many say, 'Why not.' Times are changing they say and if a man can marry a woman 40 years younger why not the other way round. 


Here are some real life examples...

8 Men who married far younger women:
Nelson Mandela married Graça Machel in 1998
Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart 

  • Donald Trump aged 70 while Milenia is 34 years younger at 47. 
  • Larry King married Shawn Southwick in 1997 when he was 64 and she was 38.
  • Clint Eastwood married Dina Ruiz on March 31, 1996, when he was 66 years old and she was 31.
  • Harrison Ford began dating Calista Flockhart in 2002, when he was 60 and she was 38. They married on June 15, 2010.
  • Nelson Mandela married Graça Machel in 1998, on his 80th birthday. She was 53 at the time.
  • Hugh Hefner married Crystal Harris in 2012, when he was 86 and she was 26.  
  • John Cleese married Jennifer Wade in 2012, when he was 73 and she was 42. 
  •  Rupert Murdoch married Wendy Deng in 1999, when he was 68 and she was 30. 
Women who married far younger men:

Ashton Kutcher married Demi Moore
Nick Cannon married Mariah Carey
Ashton Kutcher married Demi Moore in 2005, when he was 27 and she was 43.  
Nick Cannon married Mariah Carey in 2008, when he was 28 and she was 40. 

So, what makes older men and women to look for love in a far younger mates? Are the men looking for a mother figure? Are the women looking for a father figure? Or is it for financial security and fame? Would you marry someone 30 years older than you? What if your partner was 30 years older than you, would age matter?

I believe these things are difficult to explain - man meets women and they live happily ever after - maybe or maybe not.
I believe these things are difficult to explain - man meets women and they live happily ever after - maybe or maybe not. Some people marry far older mates for love, for financial stability, to get into a successful career, to procreate, to have fun, to feel younger, to get a cook, maid or helper, for companionship, to feel good, to show off, for control and so on.

One thing I know is that Macron has got a woman with a lota, lota experience. He should therefore always have sound advice and a smooth leadership. What do you think? Leave a comment to let me know.

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